TF-CBT · For children & caregivers
My relaxation practice
Use this sheet to remember a calming skill you have practiced with your therapist.
You can write, draw, or ask someone to help. Choose an ordinary, reasonably comfortable moment to practice. You do not need to bring up a frightening memory or make yourself feel upset to fill this in.
Choose a comfortable skill
What feels useful today? You might try easy breathing, gently releasing tense shoulders, stretching comfortably, or noticing your feet on the floor. Choose a skill your therapist has helped you learn. Keep your eyes open if that feels better. Breathing should feel comfortable; there is no need to hold your breath or force deep breaths.
My skill and how I like to do it:
Notice what happens
Before practice, what do you notice in your body? After a short try, notice again. You might feel a little different, the same, or uncomfortable. There is no required feeling and no score to pass. Stop or change activities if you feel dizzy, uncomfortable, or more upset.
What I noticed before and after:
Plan support
When would a small practice fit into your day? Who can remind you kindly or practice with you? A caregiver can offer choices and praise the effort without requiring calmness.
Bring questions to your therapist: What helped? What was difficult? Would a different skill feel better? If you need help now, ask a trusted adult; you do not have to manage difficult feelings alone.